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4 Traits of successful athletes

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If you’re looking for a list of 40-yeard dash times and maximum bench reps at 225, this isn’t the article for you. Not that those aren’t important measurables (especially in my favorite sport). But compared to the traits I’m going to talk about, they’re almost useless -- not to mention way too sport-specific.
 
No matter what sport you play, the four traits below can go a long way toward helping you succeed.
 
The good news is, you don’t need size or talent to excel at these. In fact, these four traits can help you overcome limitations in size and talent.  The bad news is, it takes just as much work to fine-tune these mental and emotional skills as it does to fine-tune physical ones. They take practice, a high degree of discipline, and an ability to overcome pain and other natural instincts.
 
1. Accountability
Accountability is the difference between demanding of others and demanding of yourself. Successful athletes hold themselves 100% responsible for their own success or failure. They rely on coaches, parents and others for help, of course. But they don’t hold anyone else accountable for their progress or happiness. They know that they must succeed on the basis of their own hard work and passion for their sport.
 
2. Toughness
Toughness is the difference between blaming and persevering. It’s what makes an athlete shift into a new gear when he or she faces adversity. The adversity can be either physical, such as pain or injury.  Or, it can be mental, such as getting benched, losing a starting job, or falling behind in the score. Successful athletes rise above both of them.
 
3. Aggressiveness
Aggressiveness is the difference between playing the game, and discouraging or even intimidating your opponent. Every sport has its signature play that demonstrates a level of aggressiveness designed to break an opponent’s spirit. In football, there are pancake blocks and smashmouth tackles that send ballcarriers feet-over-forehead into the turf. In basketball, there’s the slam dunk and the windmill rejection shot block that sends the ball into the top row of the stands. Baseball has full-contact plays at the plate, tennis has the overhand smash at the net … the list is endless. Competitive athletes use these techniques -- all perfectly legal and acceptable within the culture of each sport -- to dampen their opponent’s spirit and make him want to give up and quit before the game is over.
 
4. Initiative
Initiative is the difference between hoping and doing. Successful athletes don’t sit around wishing and waiting for a chance to move up the depth chart or improve their skills. They create opportunities on their own, through hustle, determination and enthusiasm. If they’re not getting enough playing time in games, they arrive at practice determined to compete with, and defeat, whoever is ahead of them. They pair up against the starter in drills. They outrun him in sprints and outperform him in other conditioning exercises. Every chance they get, they put themselves in situations where coaches will notice them out hustling the player ahead of them.
 
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